ORIGINAL: DWood
As a somewhat beginner I can say than one of the most discouraging things that there is, is to think that if you can't bench 200lbs plus you should be embarrassed to go to the gym. I don't think this thread is helping.
Do not, repeat, DO NOT, get discouraged by what other people post. There is so much you don't know about those numbers, how long have they been lifting, body types, natural strength but more importantly.....
THIS IS NOT ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE CAN DO THIS IS ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN DO!!!!!!!
It's between you and the iron, there's nobody else involved. nada, zip, zero. So if lifterX can bench a zillion pounds, so what? Does it directly affect you, other than a HOLY **** reaction? No, then don't focus on it, use it for positive stimulus, yes, but don't dwell on it.
Actually, I would think that if you can't bench at least your bodyweight you should be embarassed if you DON'T hit the gym
But what ever you do, you must realize this, lifting/bodybuilding, heck just maintaining a healthy lifestyle is all about YOU and what you're doing, not what someone else does. So keep setting those short term goals and you WILL reach them.
Sorry for the sermon.
Paul