Bodybuilding Forum - DiscussBodybuilding.com
 
Register Calendar My Profile Login Logout My Forums About Us
Advanced Search

those 2 words

 
Users viewing this topic: none
Logged in as: Guest
  PrintPrintable Version
Reply All Forums >> [General Categories] >> Out of Bounds >> those 2 words Page: [1] 2 3   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
those 2 words - 4/24/2008 11:53:27 AM   
David1991


Posts: 8831
Joined: 11/3/2006
From: New Jersey
Status: offline
So i was talking to this hot girl today, everything was going great and we were laughing about what we should do for a senior prank. then suddenly she says "my bofriend......". not like her having a boyfriend is a definite shut out of the possability of getting with her but they've been going out for a long time so it pretty much kills my chances. so yea...that always sucks to find outSmile
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 1
DiscussBodybuilding.com recommends buying your bodybuilding supplements from Supplements101.com
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 11:59:45 AM   
Soccerking3000


Posts: 2533
Joined: 7/11/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: David1991

So i was talking to this hot girl today, everything was going great and we were laughing about what we should do for a senior prank. then suddenly she says "my bofriend......". not like her having a boyfriend is a definite shut out of the possability of getting with her but they've been going out for a long time so it pretty much kills my chances. so yea...that always sucks to find outSmile


pwned

edit:
http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1812805

its not a rick rolling lol

(in reply to David1991)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 2
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 12:00:55 PM   
alphakingdom


Posts: 244
Joined: 2/26/2008
Status: offline
ouch man that sucks. i have only had that situation twice in my life and it really sucks.

_____________________________

I have decided to start an experiment to find out which are my favorite and which are the most powerful supplements. So every month I will change supplements until I have tried a very large portion of them. All supplement request are accepted through pm.

Already tried supplements: CE2, NO2, Animal Stack, Novadex XT, Black Powder, Pro Performance protein, NO-Xplode,CellmassThermo Burst, CLA, Ultra Water, and L-Carnitine

This month’s supplements: GNC Creatine Monohydrate, GNC Glutamine, GNC Arginine, GNC Liquid Protein, and, GNC Nitric Oxide Maximizer

Next month’s supplements: Muscle Milk, anabolic switch, no shotgun, animal pak

(in reply to David1991)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 3
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 12:06:14 PM   
TheSilverFox


Posts: 2301
Joined: 1/14/2008
Status: offline
boyfriend?? big flipping deal.  THEY AREN"T married..  and until the ring is ON the finger at the church or wherever... she's still fair game.    get this into your head david...

anything can happen.  so what if she's been with a guy for a long time.  she might just NOT be happy, and unwilling to say something hurtful in order to stick up for herself and get out of the relationship.

take this with a grain of salt.. but, I could care less who has boyfriends.  that's great. it really is.. but there's LOTS of fish in the sea, and until the deal has been done... she's fair game to anybody.

_____________________________

--J

24 yrs old (The Fox is CUTTING!!!!) Current wt-198
December 2007 --- Starting weight: 181 lbs.
June 6th, 2008 weight : 206.0 lbs
32 in" waist ------- 6'1"
Current BF : 13% ---- 16.5 in'' bicep
300 lb. max bench (on June 4th, 2008)
225 lb. Barbell OH press 1 rep max (June 2008)
Deadlift max = 315 lbs (June, 2008)
Curved barbell Curl max = 135 lbs. (June, 2008)
Max ATG Squat = 235 lbs. (June, 2008)

Supplements
BCAA's
Whey protein smoothie in the A.M. (peanut butter, milk, whey, oatmeal = yum)
Fish oil, vit. c, multivitamin

quote:

ORIGINAL: boomersooner1331
eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a queen, and dinner like a peasant.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tommy_Boy420
gloves are for garedening..dont use them, theres no point.

(in reply to alphakingdom)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 4
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 12:07:44 PM   
Soccerking3000


Posts: 2533
Joined: 7/11/2007
Status: offline
ehh gotta respect boundaries though, i bet you would get pretty pissed if some guy came up and started hitting on your girlfriend and tried to take her home

(in reply to TheSilverFox)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 5
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 1:11:06 PM   
TheSilverFox


Posts: 2301
Joined: 1/14/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Soccerking3000

ehh gotta respect boundaries though, i bet you would get pretty pissed if some guy came up and started hitting on your girlfriend and tried to take her home


exactly.  that's why i said take it with a grain of salt.  you can think in your head "hey.. she's still not married".   i'm not saying to run away like it's all over.. you can still be friendly and talk and stuff.   and if she decides to break it off.. that's cool. 

I just don't like it when guys act like the word "boyfriend" means that it's over forever.  it's really not... not until that other word "marraige".

_____________________________

--J

24 yrs old (The Fox is CUTTING!!!!) Current wt-198
December 2007 --- Starting weight: 181 lbs.
June 6th, 2008 weight : 206.0 lbs
32 in" waist ------- 6'1"
Current BF : 13% ---- 16.5 in'' bicep
300 lb. max bench (on June 4th, 2008)
225 lb. Barbell OH press 1 rep max (June 2008)
Deadlift max = 315 lbs (June, 2008)
Curved barbell Curl max = 135 lbs. (June, 2008)
Max ATG Squat = 235 lbs. (June, 2008)

Supplements
BCAA's
Whey protein smoothie in the A.M. (peanut butter, milk, whey, oatmeal = yum)
Fish oil, vit. c, multivitamin

quote:

ORIGINAL: boomersooner1331
eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a queen, and dinner like a peasant.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tommy_Boy420
gloves are for garedening..dont use them, theres no point.

(in reply to Soccerking3000)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 6
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 1:24:41 PM   
joey0


Posts: 1352
Joined: 7/8/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Soccerking3000


http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1812805

its not a rick rolling lol


omglol 2:54 was awesome.

_____________________________

16 yrs 5'7'' 190 lbs
Bench - 225x2
Deadlift - 335x1
Squat - 245x5

MyMiniCity Needs People!

(in reply to Soccerking3000)
Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 7
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 1:27:11 PM   
Yet

 

Posts: 6261
Joined: 3/19/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: TheSilverFox

quote:

ORIGINAL: Soccerking3000

ehh gotta respect boundaries though, i bet you would get pretty pissed if some guy came up and started hitting on your girlfriend and tried to take her home


exactly.  that's why i said take it with a grain of salt.  you can think in your head "hey.. she's still not married".   i'm not saying to run away like it's all over.. you can still be friendly and talk and stuff.   and if she decides to break it off.. that's cool. 

I just don't like it when guys act like the word "boyfriend" means that it's over forever.  it's really not... not until that other word "marraige".


Lol my senior year of highschool this girl I was trying to introduce had a boyfriend, and they were together for a few months.  I told her when they broke up she was going to be mine, she laughed and said they weren't going to break up.

A month later, they broke.

Then I broke her.

This is the second part of that mom thing btw Soccer:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=eBGIQ7ZuuiU

and it's not a Rick Roll.

_____________________________

President of the Emancipation Detoxification. DBB's oldest forum group, punching baby seals since 2/12/08.

I have found the truth; nobody hides their identity from ED.

quote:

ORIGINAL: coldfire
Alright, you got me. I am Steven Hawking, and bodybuilding is my new hobby. I am sick of physics. I wish I could train, and not just read about others training.


Quote of the Month:

quote:

ORIGINAL: twistedlink

**** happens and youre never going to look better than Yet, just deal with it

(in reply to TheSilverFox)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 8
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:01:14 PM   
David1991


Posts: 8831
Joined: 11/3/2006
From: New Jersey
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Soccerking3000

http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1812805

its not a rick rolling lol


haha, that first one was so unexpected

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheSilverFox

boyfriend?? big flipping deal.  THEY AREN"T married..  and until the ring is ON the finger at the church or wherever... she's still fair game.    get this into your head david...

anything can happen.  so what if she's been with a guy for a long time.  she might just NOT be happy, and unwilling to say something hurtful in order to stick up for herself and get out of the relationship.

take this with a grain of salt.. but, I could care less who has boyfriends.  that's great. it really is.. but there's LOTS of fish in the sea, and until the deal has been done... she's fair game to anybody.


i agree, but she just really doesn't seem like that type of girl. i don't know her all that well but we friends and she's close to perfect girlfriend material...ya know like good looking, nice, and actually funny which isnt that common is girls. either way it's not too big of a deal, it was just weird when she mentioned her boyfriend...i pretty much tuned her out after thatSmile

< Message edited by David1991 -- 4/24/2008 2:02:50 PM >

(in reply to Soccerking3000)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 9
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:07:52 PM   
quickfinch


Posts: 375
Joined: 3/15/2007
From: The U.S of States
Status: offline
Dave, watch these....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I66aySW4le8

(in reply to David1991)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 10
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:09:50 PM   
twistedlink


Posts: 8385
Joined: 5/31/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: David1991

So i was talking to this hot girl today, everything was going great and we were laughing about what we should do for a senior prank. then suddenly she says "my bofriend......". not like her having a boyfriend is a definite shut out of the possability of getting with her but they've been going out for a long time so it pretty much kills my chances. so yea...that always sucks to find outSmile


My fiancee right now when i first met her was with her boyfriend for a year and a bit.

However it is easier if hes a ****, if hes not, your chances probably are slim

_____________________________

Yeah this is just getting F'd up, im the only one without my results now, wtf is going on

(in reply to David1991)
Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 11
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:14:03 PM   
Yet

 

Posts: 6261
Joined: 3/19/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: quickfinch

Dave, watch these....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I66aySW4le8


lol

_____________________________

President of the Emancipation Detoxification. DBB's oldest forum group, punching baby seals since 2/12/08.

I have found the truth; nobody hides their identity from ED.

quote:

ORIGINAL: coldfire
Alright, you got me. I am Steven Hawking, and bodybuilding is my new hobby. I am sick of physics. I wish I could train, and not just read about others training.


Quote of the Month:

quote:

ORIGINAL: twistedlink

**** happens and youre never going to look better than Yet, just deal with it

(in reply to quickfinch)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 12
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:16:40 PM   
pumped340


Posts: 397
Joined: 2/25/2007
Status: offline
What do you guys think of this? I read it awhile ago and just was reminded about it from this thread.

IF SHE MENTIONS HER BOYFRIEND, YOUR IN.

Her having a boyfriend closes no doors for u, only her if she chooses to close the doors.
You have to consider: What was the context of her mentioning her boyfriend?  That actually makes a big difference and will tell you whether the mention is of any significance at all, and what that significance means.

If u approach a girl and right away start hitting on her she will most likely not be attracted to u just from that because lots of guys do that, if she’s not interested at all she may just say “I have a bf” because it is easy and not rude.
Still, you should never approach women with the only strategy to compliment and "hit on" them, so chances are that is not the type of boyfriend comment you're likely to hear so long as
you follow our advice.

You could be talking about something, a story, recent experience, whatever, and she responds with a mutual story or related experience and nonchalantly refers to her boyfriend in that
context, even though she never mentioned one before.  This kind of mention usually is innocuous and not meant to deflate you or spur your interest, and it's the most common way she will bring him up.
If she mentions a boyfriend but is STILL talking to you and not being evasive in any way, then it means she has at least SOME interest in you, even if it's innocent and non-sexual at that
point, and if there is some interest then the door is open and you might as well be IN.

She could be mentioning him because she’s loyal but thats unlikely. it's more likely that she is
signaling that she could be attracted but that if you follow through then you need to respect the discretion she might need.

When girls have boyfriends who they are losing interest in, they will usually establish relationships with other men before breaking things off with their current man.  She could very well break up with her boyfriend next week, totally unrelated to anything to do with you, and so long as you have discretion and remain an option, you will have access to her.
The mention of a boyfriend could also mean that she is signaling that she IS attracted and simply assuring herself in her own mind that she's not responsible if anything "happened".

You can even see her mentioning a boyfriend at all in this way as a good sign, rather than a bad sign.  It means that you are seen in a light where you are potentially in competition, whether on the same level, or not, as her current boyfriend.
Make sure u assure her a level of discretion
If what you were doing wasn't working on any level, she would ignore you, give you the cold shoulder, say something rude, walk away, or all of the above.  Anything else might as well mean you're IN and the only things in your way are logistics and opportunity.

This is a little more related to hitting on girls than girls you know from school but still. Also a girl i know broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks after meeting a guy she started liking even though she was going out with her boyfriend for about 1.5 years.

(in reply to twistedlink)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 13
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:35:43 PM   
TheSilverFox


Posts: 2301
Joined: 1/14/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: pumped340

What do you guys think of this? I read it awhile ago and just was reminded about it from this thread.

IF SHE MENTIONS HER BOYFRIEND, YOUR IN.

Her having a boyfriend closes no doors for u, only her if she chooses to close the doors.
You have to consider: What was the context of her mentioning her boyfriend?  That actually makes a big difference and will tell you whether the mention is of any significance at all, and what that significance means.

If u approach a girl and right away start hitting on her she will most likely not be attracted to u just from that because lots of guys do that, if she’s not interested at all she may just say “I have a bf” because it is easy and not rude.
Still, you should never approach women with the only strategy to compliment and "hit on" them, so chances are that is not the type of boyfriend comment you're likely to hear so long as
you follow our advice.

You could be talking about something, a story, recent experience, whatever, and she responds with a mutual story or related experience and nonchalantly refers to her boyfriend in that
context, even though she never mentioned one before.  This kind of mention usually is innocuous and not meant to deflate you or spur your interest, and it's the most common way she will bring him up.
If she mentions a boyfriend but is STILL talking to you and not being evasive in any way, then it means she has at least SOME interest in you, even if it's innocent and non-sexual at that
point, and if there is some interest then the door is open and you might as well be IN.

She could be mentioning him because she’s loyal but thats unlikely. it's more likely that she is
signaling that she could be attracted but that if you follow through then you need to respect the discretion she might need.

When girls have boyfriends who they are losing interest in, they will usually establish relationships with other men before breaking things off with their current man.  She could very well break up with her boyfriend next week, totally unrelated to anything to do with you, and so long as you have discretion and remain an option, you will have access to her.
The mention of a boyfriend could also mean that she is signaling that she IS attracted and simply assuring herself in her own mind that she's not responsible if anything "happened".

You can even see her mentioning a boyfriend at all in this way as a good sign, rather than a bad sign.  It means that you are seen in a light where you are potentially in competition, whether on the same level, or not, as her current boyfriend.
Make sure u assure her a level of discretion
If what you were doing wasn't working on any level, she would ignore you, give you the cold shoulder, say something rude, walk away, or all of the above.  Anything else might as well mean you're IN and the only things in your way are logistics and opportunity.

This is a little more related to hitting on girls than girls you know from school but still. Also a girl i know broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks after meeting a guy she started liking even though she was going out with her boyfriend for about 1.5 years.


PERFECT article.  lots of good pieces of info in there.

_____________________________

--J

24 yrs old (The Fox is CUTTING!!!!) Current wt-198
December 2007 --- Starting weight: 181 lbs.
June 6th, 2008 weight : 206.0 lbs
32 in" waist ------- 6'1"
Current BF : 13% ---- 16.5 in'' bicep
300 lb. max bench (on June 4th, 2008)
225 lb. Barbell OH press 1 rep max (June 2008)
Deadlift max = 315 lbs (June, 2008)
Curved barbell Curl max = 135 lbs. (June, 2008)
Max ATG Squat = 235 lbs. (June, 2008)

Supplements
BCAA's
Whey protein smoothie in the A.M. (peanut butter, milk, whey, oatmeal = yum)
Fish oil, vit. c, multivitamin

quote:

ORIGINAL: boomersooner1331
eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a queen, and dinner like a peasant.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tommy_Boy420
gloves are for garedening..dont use them, theres no point.

(in reply to pumped340)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 14
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:36:57 PM   
TheSilverFox


Posts: 2301
Joined: 1/14/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: quickfinch

Dave, watch these....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I66aySW4le8


rofl.. FINCH..! i watched this movie at work and laughed several times.  flipping hilarious

_____________________________

--J

24 yrs old (The Fox is CUTTING!!!!) Current wt-198
December 2007 --- Starting weight: 181 lbs.
June 6th, 2008 weight : 206.0 lbs
32 in" waist ------- 6'1"
Current BF : 13% ---- 16.5 in'' bicep
300 lb. max bench (on June 4th, 2008)
225 lb. Barbell OH press 1 rep max (June 2008)
Deadlift max = 315 lbs (June, 2008)
Curved barbell Curl max = 135 lbs. (June, 2008)
Max ATG Squat = 235 lbs. (June, 2008)

Supplements
BCAA's
Whey protein smoothie in the A.M. (peanut butter, milk, whey, oatmeal = yum)
Fish oil, vit. c, multivitamin

quote:

ORIGINAL: boomersooner1331
eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a queen, and dinner like a peasant.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tommy_Boy420
gloves are for garedening..dont use them, theres no point.

(in reply to quickfinch)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 15
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:39:37 PM   
raidendavidb


Posts: 1583
Joined: 5/26/2007
Status: offline
Good advice just whatever you do don't mess it up.

(in reply to TheSilverFox)
Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 16
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:49:51 PM   
David1991


Posts: 8831
Joined: 11/3/2006
From: New Jersey
Status: offline
so u guys agree with the article he posted? i though it looked pretty good.

didn't any1 see that twisted already posted the thing quickfinch posted?

and Yet wheres the expert advice?

< Message edited by David1991 -- 4/24/2008 2:51:43 PM >

(in reply to raidendavidb)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 17
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 2:58:34 PM   
Good Riddance


Posts: 2245
Joined: 5/12/2007
Status: online
Boyfriends...blah. Keep in contact, but there are other fish in the sea. If she is serious with the guy, don't invest too much in to going after her.

_____________________________

"To get to Heaven, sometimes you have to go through Hell."

-Faith Over Fear-

(in reply to David1991)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 18
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 3:11:11 PM   
Soccerking3000


Posts: 2533
Joined: 7/11/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: quickfinch

Dave, watch these....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I66aySW4le8


i already posted that newbSmile

(in reply to quickfinch)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 19
RE: those 2 words - 4/24/2008 3:21:26 PM   
brihead301


Posts: 3610
Joined: 6/7/2007
Status: offline
HAHAHAH that video was hilarious.

Do that Dave, definately.

_____________________________

Squats are better than steroids

(in reply to Soccerking3000)
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member Post #: 20
   
Advertisement
Email Author Private Message Add Member To Cotnact List Block Member
Page:   [1] 2 3   next >   >>
Reply All Forums >> [General Categories] >> Out of Bounds >> those 2 words Page: [1] 2 3   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
No Post New Thread
No Reply to Message
No Post New Poll
No Submit Vote
No Delete My Own Post
No Delete My Own Thread
No Rate Posts




DB Wearables | Bookmark Us | XML Feed

Recommended Sites:

Supplements 101 | Beginning-Bodybuilding | JustAskMarc | FreedomFly.net

Copyright © 2003-2008 DiscussBodybuilding.com. All rights reserved.
Forum Software © ASPPlayground.NET Advanced Edition 2.5.5 Unicode