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But there is an association between mood and personality, no? I mean I know what you're saying and I agree with you. Perhaps a better way to put it would be that however the body's chemistry is manipulated (via nutrients, chemicals/drugs/hormones, or exercise) different aspects of mood will heighten or restrict different aspects of personality. For example I get really cranky when I'm tired. My wife, on the other hand, gets really cranky when she's hungry. A little bit of alcohol significantly lowers my inhibitions and makes me more enjoyable to others in a social setting. Too much alcohol and "fun to be with" turns into "circus sideshow," lol! Intense exercise has a calming effect on me, and boosts my self confidence.
I think I may be changing my opinion about what our culture finds attractive in people. I think I've allowed myself to think the whole world is like the circumstances I place myself in. Just because there seems to be a focus on muscularity and fitness in the gym setting I frequent, doesn't mean the world at large is like that. I imagine people of all shapes, sizes, personalities gravitate toward settings wherein those traits are valued and appreciated, and find some level of happiness. It is when one pursues an ideal other than the one they possess that the self-consciousness of not being there yet corrodes confidence.
I do continue to believe that perhaps our entertainment and news have conditioned us broadly that the Hollywood image of muscular, low fat, youthful appearence, is highly desirable. In other words a person that fits that description would be admired by most people. Example: If Brad Pitt were to walk into any setting in the Western world, people would take notice and like what they saw.
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