this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight)

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (Ben)

Fri, 09 Jun 2006 14:40:34 GMT

dude, u gotta face it man. uv got an eating disorder or maybe a warped self image. I know how you feel. i went on a diet over the summer and lost 20 pounds. it felt wiked sweet, but then i began obsessing over it and it totally consumed my life. I just wanted to be down that next 5 pounds. pretty soon 5 pounds turned into 10 pounds then before you know it i was sitting in a therapists room dicussing why i wasnt eating. i went from a wiked fat 175 to a wiked thin 150. my bench went from 145 to barly 115. i joined wrestling which probably wasnt the best thing to do and got a little stronger. in the last 4 months iv gone from 155 to 180. and my bench went from 115 to 210. 700 cals a day isnt anything. you may think its alot but really all your body is doing is burning off muscle not fat. dont starve.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (Lari)

Fri, 09 Jun 2006 02:14:31 GMT

Seeing a doctor wouldn't be the stupidest thing to do, although it might feel painful, awkward and a waste of time. Not feeling comfortable in one's skins is a psychological disorder, no matter what weight or appearance.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (nextbigthing)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 19:38:10 GMT

ORIGINAL: onyxhotel28

hmm i dont really know what to say to that again i dont think i have any disorder. i mean i feel healthy i just wana get skinnier. i think i made my own diet plan that i started today. for breakfest which i will try to eat bc i never have b4 i will have oatmeal, or honey comb which honeycomb isnt that bad in calories w/ water. lunch i skip that i cant trust school lunch so most likely nothing or maybe a bottle of water and once in a while fries. and dinner is where im stuck i dont know any healthy dinners i always end up getting fast food and feel quilty bc its so bad although wendys seems to be the most "healthy" as from those fast food sites where it lists all the details of fast food. so yeah im stuck over dinner anybody have healthy dinner suggestions? thanks

U REALLY NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (envilent)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 19:37:32 GMT

this isnt healthy at all. if youre the age i think you are (maybe 14 or 15?) your body is in a huge growing phase. you might get sick man. i dont know what you are trying to do this for.. modeling? personal goals? seems very wierd to me. take cpl's advice for sure though

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (No Pain No Gain)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 19:16:59 GMT

True, but Im trying to give him inspiration telling him he's got people here to help him.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (cpl)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 19:12:20 GMT

He's already mentioned he's not into getting bigger- No sense in trying to talk someone into doing something they don't want to do.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (No Pain No Gain)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 19:08:41 GMT

Man first of all what grade are you in? I would say gr.9 or 10. If you weigh 100 pounds and are 5'5 you will be pushed around in later grades. I know you say you don't care what girls think, but wait till you get older. Man you shouldn't do that I know from experience, I used to be a lightweight like you and I was bothered at school. Now I'm not such a lightweight anymore and I get RESPECT. So do what you want, but when it comes to the facts you don't want to be a rack of bones as it is not good when you get sick because your emune system will not have enough to fight that cold or whatever. If you want to get tough and big people on this site will help you, so remember you have others here on your side.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (8pack)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 18:32:28 GMT

ORIGINAL: onyxhotel28

hmm i dont really know what to say to that again i dont think i have any disorder. i mean i feel healthy i just wana get skinnier. i think i made my own diet plan that i started today. for breakfest which i will try to eat bc i never have b4 i will have oatmeal, or honey comb which honeycomb isnt that bad in calories w/ water. lunch i skip that i cant trust school lunch so most likely nothing or maybe a bottle of water and once in a while fries. and dinner is where im stuck i dont know any healthy dinners i always end up getting fast food and feel quilty bc its so bad although wendys seems to be the most "healthy" as from those fast food sites where it lists all the details of fast food. so yeah im stuck over dinner anybody have healthy dinner suggestions? thanks

Okay there, your having a bowl of cereal in the morning and a bottle of water at lunch and fast food for dinner and you think your doing fine? thats about 500-700 calories a day. Can you even finish the fast food meal you buy?

You said your a boxer? well no offence but i call BS here. im a boxer and i know for a fact that a trainer will never waste his time on a kid that has no diet. Where do you even get the energy to run 1/4 of a mile? your body needs double the calories your taking in just to do its dailiy normal functions(breating, etc)

Where do you box?

btw, Im not trying to flame you here, I know thats what it sounds like but you really need to get in track, your totally lost

edit: what?! I just reread your post you dont even have the bowl of cereal yet? you are gonna try to start? ohh man

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (Reset)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 17:36:25 GMT

ORIGINAL: onyxhotel28
im shocked now last year or even couple months ago i was 104 i gained two pounds.

Hey man dont be worried about a couple lbs.. for all you know that could be mostly water weight.. especially over a couple months or a year... thats called growth. You're getting taller and stuff and dont worry about gaining a couple lbs.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (onyxhotel28)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 17:22:23 GMT

hmm i dont really know what to say to that again i dont think i have any disorder. i mean i feel healthy i just wana get skinnier. i think i made my own diet plan that i started today. for breakfest which i will try to eat bc i never have b4 i will have oatmeal, or honey comb which honeycomb isnt that bad in calories w/ water. lunch i skip that i cant trust school lunch so most likely nothing or maybe a bottle of water and once in a while fries. and dinner is where im stuck i dont know any healthy dinners i always end up getting fast food and feel quilty bc its so bad although wendys seems to be the most "healthy" as from those fast food sites where it lists all the details of fast food. so yeah im stuck over dinner anybody have healthy dinner suggestions? thanks

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (SuperCoolFool)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 15:17:22 GMT

Listen, you are in the 16th percentile as it is. Your 34% under average weight as it is. 84% of the population of people your age, height, and gender weigh more then you. If you were to lose 6 pounds you would be in 9th percentile, this would not be good. The 9th percentile could be dangerous to your health. Now it's not bad enough for you to go to a doctor, but if you feel as if you need to lose even more weight I suggest going to a doctor, an adult, or a counselor.

-CoolFool.

P.S. I'm not really trying to say don't do this, I'm really just trying to tell you that you already are a very good weight.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (onyxhotel28)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 13:57:23 GMT

alright thanks cpl your not as bad afterall : ) ill look at your comment and ill just settle down and set out a diet plan but its just so hard i would give into swedish fish any day......that of course is only thing i eat but im trying to stop for a month or 2

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (cpl)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 13:49:12 GMT

Don't be sorry for asking questions, that's what the site's all about. The advice I gave you is good- Diet's where it's at for fat loss. Look into that link I gave you.
If 100 pounds is a healthy weight for your size, the right diet will definitely work wonders.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (onyxhotel28)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 13:11:05 GMT

op...i know i had somebody at school a week or too ago actually confront me and said everyone saying your getting to thin. but i mean like i know im thin like i know that i know i have a bony appeal to myself but i just need it a little more down to 100 and yeah sorry i didnt take advice im just lazy and expect a majic wand to come thru and zap me skinny. anyways but i know that i am skinny already so my point is that i dont have a eating disorder if i did would i think i was huge? but i mean more info its not really my wrists i sort of like them but my face i guess some ppl have round faces but skinny bodies but the stomach is only thing with some fat on it last year i didn't have as much im shocked now last year or even couple months ago i was 104 i gained two pounds. well sorry again if i sound really pathetic and wasting time.

RE: this isnt about bodybuilding (losing weight) (cpl)

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 09:05:47 GMT

Onyx-
It was a joke. You were the first to say it sounded weird, and it does. Lighten up.
I gave you the advice you need, and then you said you didn't want to take that advice. Don't be surprised if other members find it odd too, and wonder why you'd be asking for advice and then saying you don't want it.
If you're worried about how your jawline and your wrists look, it actually may be some kind of eating disorder- Most people worry about their abs, thighs, etc- When you've got no fat to speak of in those areas, and start looking at things like your wrists- It's a self image problem. Judging from how defensive you got about the whole thing, you might need to take a look at that.