PTom:
I just joined this forum yesterday, but have been lifting for only 2 years, and I started lifting weights at age 50. Before that, I was working out with a chest expander, and seemed to be stuck, not getting any more results. Since I started lifting, I have seen great results, and gained 20 pounds of muscle. I do not do anything special for diet, just eat good foods, and eat when hungry. Next week, I will be switching routines, to improve my military press, bench, deadlift, and rows, to the Bill Starr 5x5 intermediate linear version workout, and from what I read about it, and about your goals and barriers, I think it may help you. Here is the link:
http://www.geocities.com/elitemadcow1/5x5_Program/Linear_5x5.htm Be sure to read all of the other links in the article.
Also: This is the routine which I was using previously, which I really liked, and think it may also help you:
Monday: CHEST / TRI's
Flat bench and incline bench(alternate weekly which is done first)
alternate heavy and light. For example, week 1, you go heavy (5x5) on Flat bench and lighter (3x10) on Incline. Week 2 you switch to heavy inclines and lighter flats.
Close Grip Bench
pullovers
Tuesday: LEGS
Sumo or Full Squat
Calf Raise
SLDL
Lunges
Wed:
rest
Thurs: DELTS
military press
Seated 80 degree OH press
Side Lateral Raise
Cuban Rotation or Front Raise (alternate from week to week)
Fri: BACK / BI's
Deadlift (standard or Sumo)
Bent Over Row
Rear Delt Row
Curl or Reverse Curl ( alternate same as flat and incline bench above with curl)
Sat/Sun: rest
For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God not by works, so that no one can boast. Ephesians 2: 8,9