I did 5000 calories back as a 140lber, it is possible...I had 5 sandwhiches postworkout today which totalled 1500 calories, plus a 650 calorie breakfast, and a 400 calorie lunch, and a 250 pre workout meal thats 2800 and its only 3pm, il be having 3 more meals today with snacking between and milk drinking, to get me to a nice 5500-6000 calories.
I was in the same situation as you before JDS, with same calories, at an even lighter weight, if you are indeed telling the absolute truth, your training must suck-real bad.
Mine did, and thats why i didnt grow, as soon as i sorted diet out with less calories and much better training i had no trouble.
If im honest it sounds pretty weird that youre not gaining any weight even in 3 months, i mean the reason i didnt was because i was all over the place, skipping days, skipping meals sometimes and in general screwing about, if you got a proper program together with that many calories youd be adding mental amounts of weight.
Next youll say youre endomorphic

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