ha, i get on the board and see this at the top of the page. ha cool
truthfully i wrote this in 1998 i think it was. this kind of info is out there but you have to look for it which is a shame. most of the info you'll find is geared towards those who are on "gear".
beejay my opinion about meals is take the total amount of calories you eat in a day and divide it by the number of meals. so say 3000 calories total a day divided by say 6 meals would be 500 per meal. now meals dont have to be full blown gourmet occasions. they can be as simple as chicken breast with sweet potato or brown rice. they can be cottage cheese, natty pb and some milk. base serving sizes on how much you need per meal.
as for exercises, like i mentioned concentrate on the major compound movements. a little isolation work is perfectly fine, i'm implying not to devote an entire workout for arms just to say. however you want to divide them up is fine. some do upper body/lower body, some do push/pull, some do splits like quads/calves, chest/shoulders, back/arms, etc
so say you want to do push/pull so one day do pushing exercises, take a day off, then do pulling exercises, take a day off, then repeat. now granted with this kind of routine you wont develop horseshoe triceps, peaked biceps and striated quads. like they say build the foundation first, work on the finishing touches later.