I think you're accepting what you'll never be, no matter how hard you try, because it's not possible - fact. That's not to say you shouldn't continue to strive for what you can be, and further, but there's nothing wrong with stating that person A is and always will be stronger than you. You can tell yourself genetics wont stop you reaching that level all you want, it wont change the fact that they will.
Have you been hanging out with twisted? haha
j/k. He was way too quick to call out genetics and genetic limits though.
I have to say though, that is just a terrible way of looking at things. So your telling me your fine with accepting this guy is always going to be better then you? That you dont think after years of hard work, you can become stronger? faster? even if its just certain lifts? That just seems like a ****ty way of viewing it.
I know genetics play a role, theres no way around it. Theres always exceptions to the rules. Same with body mechanics. Clearly a big chested short arm guy is going to excel on the bench press, while a longer armed man wont progress nearly as fast, possibly as far. Simply because of mechanics not genetics. You cant dispute moving a weight a shorter distance will be easier any way you look at it.
I would be willing to bet if you took 2 guys the same weight. Un trained, in every weight from 150-300 by 10's. With proper training and diets, stress/sleep etc all in line. All natural. They would all be the same or at the very least within 5-20 pounds of each other Lifts wise accounting for genetics. And this is disregarding body types.
The whole body type argument just gets on my nerves because no matter how you try to justify it when your complaining about it, it sounds like your bitching. It already sounds like you mentally assume you wont be much because of your "body" type. And you seem to be ok with that.
Ecto's are proclaimed as "hardgainers" eat more, its simple. Soccerking said he had to eat enormous amounts of food to get where he is. Bulking is an ecto, RS is an ecto. So you have to eat more then you want to, its not like there arent advantages
Endo's have their own problems to deal with. They have to be more careful with their diets, and they have to be more active.
Its all about learning what your body type is or most similar too and adjusting to that.
If people would seriously spend a good 2-3 years of Proper training and proper dieting (dieting tailored to their own bodys, eating clean 90% of the time, getting the right calories for their goals, etc...) They would see amazing results...
But the problem is people are always usually missing one piece or more of the puzzle. so results are just subpar. Brihead is a perfect example, he eat whatever he wanted but he lifted hard. Made amazing gains strength wise...but you saw his before pictures. When he started adding cardio and cut down, he looks great.
When people are missing pieces they are always so quick to blame it on something...ecto's are just notorious for saying well ****, im just not gaining because im an ecto...oh well.
Its good to know your body type...I just dont think its a reason to blame lack of progress on. eh...ive rambled on enough.