I'm new here too, but have been working out for several years myself. If you want to increase your bench press, you need to make that your main priority when you lift. In other words, you should start with bench and put your full effort into it.
Instead of doing 155 12-10-8 times... start putting on some more serious weight and do less reps.
First do a warm-up set, then put on what you think you can do about 8 times.
Then put on what you think you can do about 6 times.
Then 4.
Do that for a week or 2, then try 5 sets of 5.
A week or 2 later, go back to doing around 10 reps per set.
Try to keep your body guessing and not do the same bench routine every time.
Make sure you progressively more weight on the bar as time goes on. If you think you should be lifting 170, put on 175 or 180 instead.
If you want to focus on working your chest over your arms, try to keep your elbows at a 90 degree angle from your body. If you want more arm workout, keep your elbows closer to your body. I recommend somewhere in between. A wider grip will also work your chest more over your arms.
Try doing bench press on Monday. Then on Friday do a towel bench (lower the bar to a few inches away from your chest, instead of all the way down).
Make sure you work in a few sets of incline bench after flat bench.
last but not least, use a spotter so you can put out your max effort (and for safety).
Other people may have different opinions on all of this, but this is what has worked for me.
Hey thanks a lot man, sounds like great advice. I'd never really thought about arm angles before. I knew about the wide grip, but I'll definately give the arm angles a shot.
Mixing up my set patterns also sounds like a great idea. Just gotta find that valuable spotter though. I usually work out alone...