It's easy to say "Just stop." Easier for some because for them the biochemical reactions in their body may not change as much as it does in others. Nicotine is an unusual chemical. It is both sedating and energizing at the same time. If you took ten people, each smoking say 30 cigarettes a day, and made them stop, and then checked their brain chemistry for neurotransmitters, I'll bet that the fall in some neurotransmitters is greater than it is in the others. So there are people who can truly say "just quit--cold turkey- do it," because
they can. However since each body reacts differently this does not translate to "I did it, so you can to." This is because you are not they. Perhaps their serotonin diped a bit, but yours plummets...and you feel that...the body (not "you") becoming far more desperate for that level to pump back up. So ease up on yourself if you've tried and failed.
As some have said, there is Wellbutrin, the patch, gum, and other meds, some new, to remove the craving. But--the body remembers, and add a bit of stress, and the desperation for another fix hits you hard.
There is a trick though.
Cold turkey, no meds/patch/gum: The recidivism rate at the end of one year is perhaps 95%. That means that at the end of the year, 95 people are smoking again.
So add Wellbutrin, the patch, etc. The recidivism rate at the end of the year drops to about 85%. Not much of a gain for the massive bucks you pay for the patch--so where's the trick?
Add a support group... Amazingly with Wellbutrin or some other legitimate aid, and a support group that is consistently attended (but not forever) and the recivism rate drops to an amazing 45-55%. This means that about half that try succeed.
I don't think it works this way because others help you...I think it's the other way around-you help them. Especially here, with strong willed folk, you would act the role model, it's your nature. And you learn the nasty "get 'em puffing tricks," that friends (especially women/women friends) use to get you puffin agin, and you learn the other pratfalls, and how to avoid them. You don't have to become friends with anyone in the group, or even like them. But data indicates that half of the attendees in fact are smoke free at the end of the year.
And consider this...about 85% of smokers quit! (About 10% smoke till they die, often of a heart attack, and about 5% smoke till they die of other causes. But 85% quit
after the proverbial brown stuff hits the fan--when it is largely too late, and they are frantically grasping for another year or two of life. Call your local hospital, if they don't offer support groups, do some research...or start one....Do that and I'll personally guarantee that you'll be smoke free at the end of the year.
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