Dan,
I've read your post on "How to determine how many calories a day you need" located here:
http://www.discussbodybuilding.com/How-Many-Calories-Do-You-Need-Calorie-Calculators--Includes-Quick-Spreadsheet-Too-m45013.aspx This seems to be the first step in setting up the right diet to achieve your goals.
I've used the BMR and Harris-Benedict formulas to calculate my own personal maintenance level. At age 40, 6-2, 208 with moderate to hard activity I calculate my average daily caloric need to be between 3134 and 3490.
So, theoretically, to lose fat I'd probably need to consumer 2650 and to gain I'd need to jump to around 3900.
I have an issue with result of this calculation: Historically, I have not come remotely close to averaging 3000 calories per day.
A little history may explain some of the above issues:
1. Previous to one month ago, I never ate any breakfast. Never. My first meal of the day was usually lunch. And this was after an 11 am workout.
2. Avg # Meals: Forget 4-6. It's probably been lunch and dinner...followed by snacks.
3. Understanding the above, I'd bet my caloric intake was probably 2200-2600, with me eating more as the day progresses. And unfortunately, eating crap food at the end of the evening.
4. Keto: A while back, I did a keto diet. I went from 225 to 185. Since this keto diet (many years ago) I think I am "afraid of carbs."
5. One thing I have done is try and consumer 1g of protien per lb of bodyweight. This may have helped me gain what muscle I do have despite doing everything else wrong.
My hypothesis on the situation: I've conditioned my body to starve due to a horrible diet so I don't need as many calories. This has prevented me from making significant muscle gains and has also prevented me from eliminating some annoying fat around the mid-section.
Sound right?
The only other reason I can think of is something medical. Don't want to go there.
Now, since mid-January, I've been making a concerned effort to try and eat 4-6 meals a day, actually eat a BREAKFAST (oatmeal, banana), increase the veggies, etc. My average caloric intake per fitday has been 2600. And this has been a good (or better) 2600 calories than previously. I feel like I am eating more and my weight has remained in a range of 206-208.
I want to build muscle and slowly melt away some fat, but to do that I need to land on this elusive maintenance level. I feel like the current calculation is a relic of past behavior and now I am working towards my REAL level...a level I can work from accurately.
Any thoughts on how I should progress here would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks.
KY